Lent 16 ~ My Silent Help


          Truly, I doubt not that the angels, wondering and adoring, came thronging in countless multitudes to that poor workshop to admire the humility of him who guarded that dear and divine child, and labored at his carpenter’s trade to support the son and the mother who were committed to his care.   ~  St. Francis de Sales on St. Joseph

          Today, I remember the man who watched over me silently, who is a mere prayer away. I came to know St. Joseph only in recent years. Slightly more than a decade ago, I rediscovered my faith and began the practice of the Catholic tradition of reciting special novenas in honour of the months of the year and in honour of special saints. It was then that I learned that March was the St. Joseph month, in honour of his feast day on March 19th. I found the novena recited in his honour and I prayed it diligently for the 9 days.

          It was then that I learned that he was called the Discerner of Dreams. And that he was also invoked for needs connected to work and jobs.

          Since then, I’ve sought his hand to make sense of dreams. I’ve prayed to him desperately when faced with work struggles. Each time, I believe he answered – though not always as I wished – because St. Joseph does the will of God, not mine.

          Several years back, before I formed an affection for this saint, an Irish member of a forum mentioned how prayer had resolved work problems involving 3 people on his team. Something about that post moved me and I reached out to that forum member. A short while later, this person contacted me and told me he had a strong feeling that I needed to seek St. Joseph’s intervention. He gave me a prayer and it has been one I’ve turned to time and again.

          That forum member has now become a dear, dear friend. He has had my back many times since and there’s nothing I would not do for him and his family. And today, I realise something I never saw before: St. Joseph had brought me a friend.

          As the sun sets in a bed of tangerines and purples, I think of that silent, humble man who worked hard for his little family, pondering and praying in silence and in peace. Who never hesitated to act in order to protect. He whose heart was always in God’s that he heard even the softest whisper of heaven.

          Earthly father of Jesus. Miracle Worker. Discerner of dreams.

          Finder of friends. Maker of friendships.

          Beloved by angels.

          My silent help.


  1. I was raised in the Roman Catholic faith but must confess I fell away from it many years ago. Yet, I still keep to particular traditions that continue to feed my soul, such as certain prayers. I have never had much of a relationship with St. Joseph, you make me want to! I have favorites like St. Francis of Assisi and St. Theresa of Avalon (a.k.a. st. Theresa of the roses), among others. Thanks for this, I needed it. 🙂

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    1. I am a cradle Catholic but only came into my faith when I left home 30 years ago and eventually found a God I had distrusted before this. I found the prayers to saints you mention only recently too. In some ways, I think we are both discovering our faith. I hope you find a friend in St Joseph!

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  2. During my many years (26) working for a bully and being the “whipping boy”, I kept St. Joseph’s prayer card in my locker and would pray the prayer every morning and evening as I came in and went out. St. Joseph was my protector….

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